What does matter, is knowing that God is with me. He is a comforter and will cover me in my times of weakness and grief.
Fear and faith cannot coexist! By placing faith where my fear is I can walk with weight in my steps knowing God will make a way. His words will be a lamp onto my feet and a light onto my path.
When we were kid free newlyweds putting each other first was easy since it was just the two of us. Once we had children this became difficult.